MAKE YOURSELF MATURED

Hello, again after a long while, I don't write regularly as being a guy who writes when he feels to write.
Today I am expressing my thought about our understanding related to our life's happenings.
We blame ourselves and others for what happens to us, even I use to do this, and I do blame myself, accept the feeling of contrite, and try to find myself in every reason.
Why this is so? Why this happens to me always? Why I become the reason every time?
BUT this is what you need to understand, this does not like that the fate plays with you, but in the other sense you play with your fate making yourself a main reason.
Some characters you find who are rather different, they make this contrite manner diverse in the sense of blaming the third one like friend, relatives and when they don’t find the third one, they blame GOD.
It is something that embedded in our characters there is nothing unusual in it.
I believe life is an experience of observing bad and good, happen to us and don't know why people find god to be a real blameworthy.
I feel, this is completely a sign of immaturity when you keep on blaming the third person
When you blame yourself its a sign of semi maturity and when you don't blame anybody else for what happening with you, means you have developed the sense of understanding about the events and all aspects of it and making yourself a matured person.
I would like to share one more thing about semi maturity stage where you blame only yourself for what is happening, this is the stage where we get rather depressed as compare to that immature stage.
Why do we differentiate our experiences into worst and best?
We spend our life with various events, lots of accidents, innumerable thought and relations.
If we self realize, you see there is nothing like worst and best experience, let us assume you faced something really worse, that time you might cry and you would feel bad, might be you would blame someone, but as the time passed you would be stopping yourself to blame someone and feeling its a part of life and you would be calling it as your best experience of your life, that might make you feel different from others or make you feel proud that you would be the one who could have survived.
Ask a question from yourself, how would you feel when you would be at your last stage of your life?
You feel happy that you had been the best person who got all the pleasures of life that you didn't deserve.
Or you feel happy that you had been the person who got all the worst happenings that you didn't deserve.
At the end both persons do leave their own experiences for the rest of the world.
Who would leave the best experience?
If you deserve something, it feels good whether you do leave a worst or best experience of your life but what you don't deserve that would be bonus for you.

BY DABZ

My Dreams

As i don't have something serious to say, i get you to some interesting things about my dreams and its myth. Dreams play significant role in human life if it is being noticing.

I am having some interesting dreams these nights and somehow I could able to remember them quite easily as i need to write down my dreams in morning but not every time. Dreams are often known for fading from your memory.

Before these dreams nights,I would rarely see any dreams but what is happening these night ....i don't know i watch people faces in my dreams , people who are known to me but few are just unknown. It is amazing for me to watch these people who somehow connected to me in past and nothing have from my present, I just lost all my memories about these people.

First few nights are okkk, there were no any kind of surprising at all but when you see your all friends ,who you forgotten, appearing in various role. This sometimes makes you really startled about all this and every night the faces with the new role, changes.

Intriguingly I thought once " Am i going to die soon"???

Like all my past buddies coming in my dreams, like a last desire of a man to see all his buddies once, the same thing is happening with me. But it doesn't scare me ,thats good, at last something strange I feel after a long time.

But that was completely a senseless thought

If i say scientifically, there is some relation of your dreams to your real world until you find some realistic meaning. But remember one think there is minimum chances of happening things in future exactly the same way you have seen them in your dreams.

What most often you see and you observe are completely controlled by your subconscious mind and you would be the complete controller.

Take example if your are in a meeting with your boss and he is scolding you about your unacceptable work.. sudden changes are done by your mind that you would be at the place of you boss and boss position changes into peon and you are scolding him just because he couldn't able to present the file, you wanted on your desk.

Most of the time we ignored the dreams because of our busy schedule and our lack of interest on analysis,we never try to interpret them. You would be amusing yourself or may be relaxing yourself if you try to interpret them in your own way. I say... this must increase you sense of understanding about the events of life.

You will find various book in market on dreams myth and dreams dictionary but the interpretation that you can do on your dream would be the best,market books just help you to give the way of interpretation.

Sometimes we see some anonymous, uncertain and kind of thing which you cant be analyzed easily.

That is called dream symbols.

I take few examples to make you understand.

WATERFALL

Sometime we scared of waterfall, but if you interpret the symbolic meaning, It means something you letting go or you are releasing your some pent up emotions

and feeling which are no more important.

UNDERWATER

This also scares us most of the time, even I have seen myself underwater.

Symbolic meaning that you have over come you emotions and your free to move.

SNAKE

To see a snake or be bitten by one in your dream, signifies hidden fears and worries that are threatening you.

The most important dreams symbol TEETH 

This is the most common dream symbol across the dreamers, where teeth falling out

and lot of pain in teeth are commonly being seen, people scared most of the time and visited doctors for check up but this symbolized of having challenge getting their voice hard,can be generalized for people who are shy

there are thousands of symbol defined for interpretation,but i do believe in positive selfrealisation.

I advise you ,if you want to interpret one of your dreams or dream symbols, make sure that interpretation should be positive which helps you to get in relaxed mood and motivates you. 

This has been a wast topic for talk. I will take this topic again in future to make you more familiar with it, if it is needed.

Have a good reading, hope you get something good from this post.

Happy friendship day BY DABZZZ